Here's what changes everything: Creating space between trigger and reaction. When there's no space, karma controls you. The pattern runs automatically. But when you create space (even just a breath or two) you give yourself the option to respond differently. Or to not respond at all. This is what I think mindfulness actually is. Not sitting on a cushion humming (although that’s great for calming your anxiety by activating your vagus nerve). It's noticing your patterns in real time and choosing whether to follow them or not.